Sonja Wekema.
I am Sonja, founder of The Other Perspective. I work with leaders and teams who want to understand what is happening around them, and what part they can play in changing it.
I am curious about what you see.
I bring more than 25 years of experience in leadership and organisational development. That experience gives me plenty to draw on. Your situation gives us our starting point.
We might talk about a decision you are putting off, a relationship that takes more energy than it should, or a change you want to make. I ask questions, share what I notice and make room for a different view. You can expect attention, directness and humour.
Experience and ongoing learning.
My work brings together executive coaching, leadership development and strategic facilitation. Alongside that work, I am a PhD candidate at Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam, researching leadership and psychological safety.
Education and professional affiliations
- MSc Executive Coaching, Ashridge London
- Master Executive Coaching, Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam
- Ashridge-certified and part of the Ashridge executive coaching pool
- EMCC Certified Senior Practitioner through NOBCO
- EMCC Certified in team coaching
- Member of NOBCO and its Executive Coaching professional group, VEC
- Member of Ooa, ODNE and IODA
- Ooa-certified intervision facilitator
The conversation continues.
Writing and talking with others are part of how I keep exploring leadership. I co-authored Leading in a Wicked World and The Leadership Journey. With Lenneke Abelman, I host TOP Talks.
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“Sonja has an honest and authentic style, is curious about the reasons for things, courageous to tackle issues. Always looking to increase the impact she can make!”
ABN AMRO
More client experiences
“Sonja brought insight as well as skilled facilitation within a complex organizational review which had many sensitivities and issues. Sonja was able to create the conditions for difficult, edgy conversations to happen without it feeling personal or threatening. These are valuable qualities which set Sonja apart from many other team coaches in my experience.”
Shell
“Open, sincere and critical is how I experienced Sonja. By sharing her own experiences, asking critical questions and looking at a question from another perspective, I have been forced to shift my thinking several times. The sincere manner in which this happens creates a safe environment that creates beautiful conversations.”
Zelfstroom
“Sonja is a high quality HR Manager who develops trust with people she interacts with. She balances new talent development vs deepening expertise, empathy vs delivery, vision vs reflection very well.”
Aditya Birla Group

